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Fall, 2003
 

Family Feud

From squabbling siblings to sparring spouses, many family businesses have inherent problems.

By Samuel Greengard

It's no small irony that the same qualities that helped Bill Maritz build a multi-billion-dollar business empire led to his demise. The late chief executive officer of Maritz, Inc., a St. Louis-based consulting firm, helped clients motivate their employees through sophisticated travel and incentive programs. However, when it came to his own key employees – namely his family – Maritz couldn't mend a rift the size of the San Andreas Fault.

By the late 1990s, his sons Philip and Peter were at the throat of another brother, Stephen, whom Bill Maritz had already chosen as his successor. Then, before his death in 2001, the elder Maritz arranged Philip's and Peter's ouster from the board and altered their inheritance. Stephen wound up controlling 60 percent of the firm's voting shares and the other two brothers cried foul. By the time the dust settled, tempers were flaring and lawsuits were flying. Meanwhile, the company's sales plummeted by $1 billion within a year.

Unfortunately, stories like Maritz, Inc. aren't unusual. These days, family feuds are just as much a part of the business landscape as P&L statements and mobile phones.

While many family-run businesses function just fine and participants benefit by working toward a mutual goal, too many others encounter squabbling siblings, bickering spouses and parent-child backbiting. The list of family businesses that have lapsed into turmoil reads like a Who's Who of the corporate world: U-Haul, CK Mondavi, Rite Aid, Hewlett-Packard and Kinko's, to name a few.

At the very least, infighting can undermine profits and torpedo family relationships. In the worst cases, screaming, fistfights and murder can enter the picture. "Family members can parlay their relationships into greater success or wind up destroying the business and their lives," says Quentin J. Fleming, a Santa Monica, Calif., management consultant and author of Keep the Family Baggage Out of the Business (Simon & Schuster, 2000). He notes that only about 30 percent of family businesses survive to the second generation, and a mere 10 percent make it to the third generation.

To be sure, developing a successful strategy is no simple task. There are personality issues and practical issues to consider. There are egos to massage and control issues to assuage. "Within a family, issues and problems become magnified. And when people work together on a daily basis, the situation can quickly reach a flashpoint," states Russ Allred, president of Bakersfield, Calif.-based consulting firm Allred & Associates and co-author of The Family Business: Power Tools for Survival, Success, and Succession (Berkley Publishing Group, 1997).

All in the Family

It's not difficult to understand why a family business can present headaches...and heartache. Not only is the owner dependent on the business, so are participating family members, including children, cousins, uncles and aunts, and others. Drawing the line between business and family relationships can prove difficult, especially when the family pecking order doesn't jive with the company's organizational chart.

At the heart of the problem, Fleming says, is the lack of clearly defined roles and responsibilities, along with a succession plan. That can lead to feelings of inequality, as well as power plays and ongoing anxiety about who makes decisions and how they play out within the organization. Left unresolved, the resentment and jealousy can escalate from a simmer to a boiling cauldron. "Too often, any kind of disagreement or dysfunctional family behavior will ignite problems. Those involved don't realize that the family baggage is masquerading itself as a business problem," he explains.

The situation can lapse into crisis if the owner of a family business suddenly falls ill or dies without designating a successor. The resulting power vacuum can suck otherwise level-headed individuals into the fray. What's more, the lack of planning can mean that no family member has the knowledge and training to assume the reins. That, in turn, can lead to additional disputes and a lack of focus and continuity about how to run the business.

Many family businesses also encounter speed bumps because the owner is unwilling to treat sons, daughters and other family members like employees instead of children. In many cases, the behavior isn't intentional but still has serious consequences. "The patriarch of the family remembers children, nephews, nieces and cousins when they were in diapers and afraid of monsters under the bed," Fleming explains.

"Grown men and women walk out of the president's office and wind up crying because they feel as though they're being treated like a child."

A few years ago, while Fleming was providing consulting services to a family business, the president of the company admitted openly that he didn't trust a key executive, who just happened to be his child. The head of the firm was still upset at his son for losing a bicycle when he was 10 years old and reminded the 45-year-old about it on a regular basis. "The father couldn't get over the issue – even after 35 years. He was denying his son opportunities and hurting the business."

Surviving for the Long Haul

Approximately 80 percent of U.S. businesses are family run. The list of 18 million companies includes large corporations like Ford Motor Company, Motorola, Nordstrom, Fidelity Investments and Simon & Schuster, Inc. And it's a myth that only small, mom-and-pop firms encounter problems.

For example, at U-Haul, a family coup d'ιtat in 1986 ousted the company's founder, L.S. Shoen, and his brother Sam, and resulted in lawsuits and countersuits, stormy board meetings and occasional fisticuffs. At retailer Rite Aid, founder Alex Grass' son Martin vanquished him in 1995 after a bitter boardroom battle. Later, Rite Aid's board gave Martin the axe for improperly pledging corporate assets to secure a bank loan and then falsifying board minutes.

Fortunately, most families manage to steer clear of such nasty disputes. The most successful typically embrace a group of core strategies: a board with outside advisors so that decisions don't become personal; holding regular family meetings to address business and family relationships; offering ample career development opportunities; and developing common values and a common vision.

According to Dennis Engelbrecht, a consultant at the Family Business Institute in Raleigh, N.C., an organizational chart and detailed succession plan are also essential. "Ideally, people know what their role is, they're able to receive training, and then assume the position when a transitional period occurs," he says. Author Allred believes that it's better to make succession decisions early – even if it means a family member winds up offended and quits the business. "The worst thing is to deal with organizational issues at a moment of crisis," he says.

Finally, it's wise to consider mediation before a situation blows up, says Lee Finkel, director of the Office of Dispute Management for University of Phoenix and a certified mediator and arbitrator. "Dispute resolution provides the greatest opportunity to resolve problems and preserve relationships. When a family business is involved, a mediator brings objectivity to a situation where there's almost always a great deal of subjectivity. The process helps curb emotions."

In the end, family businesses that foster communication, trust and confidence are likely emerge as winners. And, make no mistake, the rewards can be enormous.

"In many instances, family businesses maintain a long-term perspective and a level of energy that other companies have difficulty matching," Fleming says. "They can achieve greater success and provide participants with a greater sense of satisfaction and happiness."

Seven Deadly Sins

According to Quentin J. Fleming, author of Keep the Family Baggage Out of the Family Business, the following seven deadly sins can destroy a family business:

  • "It's the same old song." People's behaviors, roles and beliefs from childhood are perpetuated in the business, which could result in stagnation and lack of innovation.
  • "We're one big, happy family." When you run a business like a family, it can create problems with gender roles, equality and avoidance of confrontation.
  • "They may have grown up, but they'll always be my children." Parents are unable to accept their children as grown adults, and therefore reluctant to turn over power or authority that's necessary to run the business.
  • "You're not loyal to this family if you insist on being selfish." Rather than seeing family members as individuals, business owners see them as automatic employees, often forcing them into a business they don't want to be a part of.
  • "Father knows best?" Business founders usually possess dominating personalities and/or are consumed with the business, which can build resentment among children who have always played second fiddle to dad's work.
  • "Maybe it will go away if we ignore it." Business families often fail to address problems that emerge within any family – sibling rivalry, marriage, death.
  • "Tell me about your childhood." Children working in the family's business don't have the "space" to resolve critical issues about their childhood. Parents can either be hyper-critical or too forgiving of flaws.

Succession Success

Remarkably, two-thirds of family businesses do not have a succession plan in place. Here's how you can ensure the future of your company:

  • Create an organizational chart that shows your organization's current management structure.
  • Map out your organization's competencies and understand how and where key employees fit in.
  • Develop a succession plan for filling various positions in the event that someone leaves or dies.
  • Provide training, mentoring and knowledge sharing to prepare employees for future assignments.
  • When a vacancy occurs, follow the plan without hesitation.
  • Review and update the succession plan on a regular basis – no less than every six months to a year.

Our Faculty Recommends

Family Business Institute
Offers books and resources on running a family business effectively.
www.familybusinessinstitute.com
919-783-1880

Family Business Power Tools
Provides articles, information and more about family businesses.
www.allredbrothers.com
888-425-5733

FamilyBaggage.com
Author Quentin J. Fleming's site offers a free business assessment tool and other resources.
www.familybaggage.com
310-459-9570
 

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